It was totally unexpected and a beautiful surprise. I suppose the first clue should have been a text message I received from my younger sister (mid last week), Shiro, saying she couldn’t wait to see me over the weekend. I concluded we had planned something and I’d forgotten and was excited about spending time with her. My second clue should have definitely been when the wrong sister- wrong in the sense that I wasn’t expecting her- Wanja arrived at around 2 pm. Even when we were all (Njoki and Shiro included) sitting around the island in Patty’s kitchen laughing about Shaniqwa‘s (from the Real Househelps of Kawangware) appearance on The Trend, it didn’t occur to me that something was going down. I chalked it up to one of Patty’s random get togethers- she is a wonderful hostess and really great at that stuff. What is it they call it? Pregnancy brain? When my friend Carol arrived, I had the mind to dash to my house and put on some lipstick because I just knew something was happening. Sly, Emma, Suzie, Kui and Judith and OMG! a wonderful evening with friends- some of whom I haven’t seen in YEARS- was born!
I loved every minute of it. I loved that I had no clue and wasn’t even expecting a baby shower. I remember asking Patty why she was frying mandazi and baking a cake and she said she just felt like it. I was sitting in her kitchen past noon telling her that I was trying to sum up the energy to take a shower! Yes, Blogiary- pick your jaw off the floor. At 40 weeks pregnant, I am allowed to have days when I do not feel like doing A.N.Y.T.H.I.N.G! I loved catching up with my friends and reliving adventures from days past. I appreciate my sisters and my friends- even those that weren’t able to attend- for putting it all together.
It’s Sunday evening as I write this; the 25th day of January, 2015. My EDD is two days away and I have an appointment to see my OBGYN tomorrow (assuming I don’t go into labour before the sun rises) and R and I plan on talking to him about our options going forward. I have mentioned being afraid of undergoing a Caesarian section, but after speaking to my friends yesterday (some of them mothers that have been through CS) and with the reality that I could be carrying a baby larger than Kamau was at birth- a delivery that was no walk in the park- I want to go by what is best for baby and I. I am excited about meeting our little angel, holding her and dressing her up in her tiny outfits. The good Lord has brought us this far and I trust He will see us through. It’s been a mixed bag, my pregnancy, but the thought of what awaits us at the end of our journey has made it all worth it.
I don’t know if this will be my last post before baby is born. Perhaps. I will let you know, Blogiary 🙂
xoxo!